People seem to be avoiding me, and more so the girls, why?God says that a man should not be alone, therefore why am I suffering from isolation?
Bad hair day .God says that a man should not be alone, therefore why am I suffering from isolation?
If that's your picture,you are a goodlooking guy--not that that really matters but it helps.
I used to think that I didn't have friends or dates because people didn't like me. I found out that it was because I didn't really like people! What I mean is that you need to actively befriend people--both men and women. Reach out to others instead of waiting for them to reach out to you. Be a true friend to girls--ask them questions about themselves, compliment them (not flatter) and be truly interested in what they're doing, what they're interested in, what their hobbies are, etc.
Too many guys try to 'chat up' a girl by talking about themselves. Guys think they have to 'advertise' themselves to a girl by boasting, posturing, touting their many accomplishments, etc. But girls find that boring! Every person wants someone else to be interested in them--their opinions, their likes and dislikes, their past, their travels.
Read The Fine ARt of Small Talk, byDebra Fine. It will open the world of friends and girlfriends to you.
';If a man would have friends he must show himself friendly';
';People don't really care how much you know until they know how much you really care!';
Why do you think people may be avoiding you? Are you a negative person? Do you complain about things a lot? Think about this, it could be unintentional.
Woman like a man who is confident. He doesn't need to be outspoken to be confident, just sure about himself.
So, relax and continue with your everyday activities and soon you will find people who gravitate toward you. It's when you are not looking for a relationship, you find one.
God only gives you what you CAN handle.
Nor are you alone, He is always beside you.
I know this sounds cliche', but i want you to do something;
Sit down in a quiet place, or even whilst you're driving.
Talk aloud, Thank God for all you DO have.
This is the thing that brought ME closer to Our Heavenly Father.
That's difficult to answer without being around you. Maybe you look angry all the time or give off creepy vibes, who knows. It sounds cheesy but you should try to think more positive. It really does work.
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