If a loner is isolated not out of his choice .Whate can he do to end the isolation ?I mean what would normal people do? where would they go ? what would they do ?Whats a loner to do if nobody wants them ?What can a person do to end his isolation ?
Being a loner IS a choice unless you are being locked up against your will.
Unless you are a captive somewhere, make the choice not to be a loner. Lots of neutral places to start - the mall, a coffee shop, an internet cafe, a bingo parlour, a park to name a few. You can talk to the person next to you about non important stuff like the weather, the sad fact that my HABs got played out of the playoffs :o), how unfortunate it is that the lady across from you got down to 1 number at bingo - anything that isn't religion or politics (Unless you are in the appropriate place for such conversations) should work.
How do you know that no one wants you if you don't know anyone. Friendships and/or relationships do not happen overnight so you have to work at it until it becomes so 'old hat' that you can mingle comfortably.
If you are in a prison of the Sing Sing variety - they have libraries and I would think that making friends with the Books of Knowledge in a place like Sing Sing is not the worst choice a person could make.What can a person do to end his isolation ?
You are right about being isolated for shallow reasons. Silly people! Look what they are losing out on! Better to have 1 good friend than 1000 fair weather friends. I鈥檓 semi-isolated - very uncomfortable in groups.
You really have to like yourself first - everyone else after. Report Abuse
You are right about being isolated for shallow reasons. Silly people! Look what they are losing out on! Better to have 1 good friend than 1000 fair weather friends. I鈥檓 semi-isolated - very uncomfortable in groups.
You really have to like yourself first - everyone else after. Report Abuse
You are right about being isolated for shallow reasons. Silly people! Look what they are losing out on! Better to have 1 good friend than 1000 fair weather friends. I鈥檓 semi-isolated - very uncomfortable in groups.
You really have to like yourself first - everyone else after. Report Abuse
Everyone is lonely, until they find their counterpart male/female. Love is the only cure, and I mean unveiled and non-judgmental love. Loneliness is universal. As for being a loner in general, just try to join more activities in school or in your community, you will always meet people there.
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